How To Earn People Trust
One of the rarest
characteristic to find in people is trust. It is important you know that trust
begins with you. “Trust yourself you will start to trust others”-Santosh
kalwar. It has become a hard task to find someone to rely on, share secret with
and someone to keep things with. Sincerely, locating trustworthy people is not
the problem, the question is are you trustworthy too?
Lets quickly run this
trust test
Ø When
there is a vacant position in power. Do people trust you to vote you there?
Ø Can
your friends trust you with their finances & properties?
Ø Can
your colleagues share secret with you?
Ø Will
people trust you with a leadership position?
If your answers are not
accurate, then you are also not trustworthy. This article will enlighten you on
how to be trustworthy and earn people trust.
This is confidence in or reliance on some
person or quality. It can also be defined as the condition or obligation of one
to whom anything is confided; responsible charge or office.
Trust is an essential
trait of life, it makes your journey faster, give you cheap victory and make
life meaningful. There is no one that will support you, stand by you, vouch for
you or nominate you when you are not trusted. Trust is the link between hard
work and success. nothing replaces trust (it has no substitute). People only
trade their trust for other things because they don’t know the value, Trust
takes years to build, seconds to break and forever to repair hence never betray
people trust in you. It is an asset of inestimable value.
Trust achieves faster
than labor
Trust shield better than security
personnel
Trust will lift you
better than connections
Trust preserve your
success and achievements.
How to Earn People Trust
·
Trust:
The first step in earning people trust is to also trust people. When you don’t trust people, don’t expect them
to trust you, because trust is reciprocal. He who does not trust enough will
not be trusted _ laotzu.
·
Honesty: Trust
start with truth and ends with truth. Nothing beat honesty in earning trust.
Before any one can trust you, they must always find you sincere in all that you
do. Always depict things the exact way they are, don’t add, don’t subtract.
·
Simplicity: You
must be found simple and easy to relate with. don’t be cunny, let people know
you for who you are. Simplicity involves that you are not complex, appearing
plain in your relationships.
·
Integrity: Always
be found complete, pure and steadfast to moral or ethical laws or instructions.
You must be upright and be unimpaired to earn people trust.
·
Contentment:
Be satisfied with what you have and hope for the best. People appreciate
contentment because they belief they are safe around contented people.
· Faithfulness: This means loyalty. Stay true and devoted to people. Finding a faithful person is as hard as locating trustworthy people, if you are faithful, people will automatically trust you because faithfulness and truthfulness work together.
·
Selflessness:
Always learn to think less of yourself and consider other people in your
thoughts, decisions and actions. Remember less of self is more of life. Don’t
always put yourself ahead of others, it is important you see things from other
people perspective and be empathetic.
To
be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved. _ George MacDonald.
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