How To Earn People Trust

    One of the rarest characteristic to find in people is trust. It is important you know that trust begins with you. “Trust yourself you will start to trust others”-Santosh kalwar. It has become a hard task to find someone to rely on, share secret with and someone to keep things with. Sincerely, locating trustworthy people is not the problem, the question is are you trustworthy too?

Lets quickly run this trust test

Ø When there is a vacant position in power. Do people trust you to vote you there?

Ø Can your friends trust you with their finances & properties?

Ø Can your colleagues share secret with you?

Ø Will people trust you with a leadership position?

If your answers are not accurate, then you are also not trustworthy. This article will enlighten you on how to be trustworthy and earn people trust.



 

    What is Trust?

   This is confidence in or reliance on some person or quality. It can also be defined as the condition or obligation of one to whom anything is confided; responsible charge or office.

Trust is an essential trait of life, it makes your journey faster, give you cheap victory and make life meaningful. There is no one that will support you, stand by you, vouch for you or nominate you when you are not trusted. Trust is the link between hard work and success. nothing replaces trust (it has no substitute). People only trade their trust for other things because they don’t know the value, Trust takes years to build, seconds to break and forever to repair hence never betray people trust in you. It is an asset of inestimable value.

Trust achieves faster than labor

Trust shield better than security personnel

Trust will lift you better than connections

Trust preserve your success and achievements.


 

 

       How to Earn People Trust

·       Trust: The first step in earning people trust is to also trust people.  When you don’t trust people, don’t expect them to trust you, because trust is reciprocal. He who does not trust enough will not be trusted _ laotzu.

·       Honesty: Trust start with truth and ends with truth. Nothing beat honesty in earning trust. Before any one can trust you, they must always find you sincere in all that you do. Always depict things the exact way they are, don’t add, don’t subtract.

·       Simplicity: You must be found simple and easy to relate with. don’t be cunny, let people know you for who you are. Simplicity involves that you are not complex, appearing plain in your relationships.

·       Integrity: Always be found complete, pure and steadfast to moral or ethical laws or instructions. You must be upright and be unimpaired to earn people trust.

·       Contentment: Be satisfied with what you have and hope for the best. People appreciate contentment because they belief they are safe around contented people.

·       Faithfulness: This means loyalty. Stay true and devoted to people. Finding a faithful person is as hard as locating trustworthy people, if you are faithful, people will automatically trust you because faithfulness and truthfulness work together.


 

·       Selflessness: Always learn to think less of yourself and consider other people in your thoughts, decisions and actions. Remember less of self is more of life. Don’t always put yourself ahead of others, it is important you see things from other people perspective and be empathetic.

 The best gift you give people is trust, learn to trust people and also to earn people trust. Remember don’t trade people trust for anything, it is worth more than money!

To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved. _ George MacDonald.

 

 

 


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